Always/Never
Be Happy Be You by luckybluebirdart, found via kind over matter
When I saw the Always/Never post on Emma Alvarez Gibson’s blog, I knew I had to steal it for my own (& credit her, of course!). Partly because writing a “real” post (sentences & thru-lines & grammar, oh my!) has been hard for me lately (both time-wise & brain-wise), but mostly because it is so simple yet conveys so much. Thanks for the awesomeness (always!), Emma!
Here’s my list:
ALWAYS:
- color (the brighter, the better – especially shoes)
- the beach
- the first iced coffee day
- Broadway musicals with my Mom
- stars
- hair down
- kitten heels
- boxing (in a wussy way)
- sleeping in
- cherries
- coconut ices from a street vendor
- Punky Brewster
- big purses
- Girls Night Out
- improv & sketch comedy
- being in super-duper-ridiculous love
- staying true to your dreams, no matter how often they change
- being the character actress/belting
- laughing, laughing, laughing (laughing, laughing)
- working towards a goal
- my wedding pictures
- Adam Sandler
- wine
- dark chocolate
- the Violent Femmes’ first album
NEVER:
- black (OK, not never, but really only in pants)
- experimental theater
- upside down roller coasters (gulp)
- marathon running
- Starbucks
- hair up
- little tiny clutches
- wearing glasses (if I can help it)
- not feeling like I have a say in my own darnfalootin’ life
- having an unfulfilling career
- tanning
- being the ingenue/soprano
- fitting into The Mold
- athletic sneakers outside of the gym
- Dane Cook
- scotch
- settling
- John & Kate + 8
- heavy metal
- Tom Petty
Your turn! Leave a comment with your Always/Never, or steal this blog post for your blog (but make sure you leave the link here for us to see)!
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August 13th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
I loved reading these… I’d love to see everybody do one, actually. It’s fascinating stuff! And I must confess (I’ll do it on my site, too) that I was inspired by a Tweet that @gwenbell made about this type of list.
August 13th, 2009 at 3:46 pm
Um, how come I don’t know her? She seems awesome – I just followed her. Good to know I’m stealing the list from a fellow thief!
August 13th, 2009 at 9:20 pm
Fun! Loved reading your list. I’ll try it on my blog too. Cool idea. Go Michelle! Go Emma!
Here are a few to get me started…
Always: hugs, mascara, smile, have goals, laughter, hold hands, respect, kiss good night, send handwritten notes, be true to yourself, say “I Love You”
Never: say never, disrespect, give up on a dream, think you are better, white pants, white shoes
More on my blog…
http://www.lifecoachpaige.blogspot.com
August 14th, 2009 at 1:29 am
Hi Michelle!
Loved this post, and wanted to borrow it for myself! Here’s my list of always/never:
http://lacretiataylorpersonal.blogspot.com/2009/08/alwaysnever.html
(Though my list seemed to be a little heavy on the “always” side – wonder what that means?)
August 14th, 2009 at 8:36 am
Your lists are awesome, Paige & Lacretia! I think my Always/Never List is going to be constantly changing…The more lists I see, the more I’m like, “I should include that! And that! Oh, and that!” I think it might live as a Blog Page (in addition to this post) instead….Hmmmm….
Oh, and Paige, your link is wrong, silly lady. Here’s the link to the post for everyone: http://lifecoach-paige.blogspot.com/2009/08/alwaysnever.html Stupid hyphen!
August 14th, 2009 at 11:13 am
Oh, how fun! I’ve got a bit of “blogger’s block” myself, so I may yoink this today
Long live Punky Brewster!
August 14th, 2009 at 11:18 am
Ooh, I’d love to see your list, Elise! Make sure you come back here & post the link when you’re done. It’s such a great Fri post!
And yay for Punky Brewster! The fact that Miley Cyrus is the Soleil Moon Frye of this generation makes me sad…
August 14th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
This is awesome! I can’t wait to come up with a list of my very own!
August 14th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
Ok, I had to jump on the bandwagon!
http://betanisbureau.com/2009/08/14/always-never/
August 14th, 2009 at 1:58 pm
http://andi-on-the-run.livejournal.com/23420.html
August 14th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Tiffany – Can’t wait to see it! I know it’s gonna be ridiculously awesome.
Elise – TMBG, dark chocolate, & being weird are all things we have in common. So great.
Andi – I need to add Math to my Never list! That made me laugh out loud. Dumb musical theater nerds
August 14th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
This is from a Facebook friend/Fan who sent her list to me via Facebook note. It was way too good not to share with all of you!
ALWAYS:
Happyness!
Joy!
Laughter!
Magic!
Exclamation points
Adventuring
Yes, and..
Please and thank you
Family first
Music
singing
harmonizing
actressing
Sitting
reading
Talking
taking the detours (who doesn’t want roadside fruit + lobster?)
comedy
choosing the right thing over the easy thing
Spazzing out
sillyness
fun
on time
dependable at 3am and 3pm
stubborn
Eye rolling
tenacity
NY Yankees
NY period.
Bubbles
Coffee
Sushi
Muppets
Dancing like crazy
Rollar Skates old school
Crayons + coloring books
Learning
Making out on 9th Ave
NEVER:
Disloyalty
Bad Manners
Surrender
High drama
Trying to belong
Politics
Ignorance
Routine
Monotony
Quiet
Curbing my enthusiasm
flats (except in improv and not even then all the time)
mushrooms
dispair
swimming in pools
giving up
giving in
giving STDs
Jagermeister (they go hand in hand)
Singing flat or sharp (PEOPLE WHO CAN”t MATCH PITCH SHOULDN’T BE SINGERS!!!)
Meat
Cheating
Holding my tongue
Counting to ten
Being pigeon-holed
Staying down
August 14th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
Thanks Michelle! I forgot…I have the silly hyphen in my blog name.
http://www.lifecoach-paige.blogspot.com
Look at all the great lists!!!
August 14th, 2009 at 3:57 pm
If it makes you feel better, Paige, I used to link back to my blog as whenigrowup.com/blog. I’d absolutely forget the “coach”!
August 17th, 2009 at 12:09 am
I would like to invite you to Wrecking Sisters reunited
http://artwreckage.blogspot.com/
Please stop by if you would like be a part of the fun