Comments on: Tough (Question) Tuesday: What do I definitely not want any more of? http://whenigrowupcoach.com/2008/12/30/tough-question-tuesday-installment-9/ Who do YOU want to be when you grow up? Thu, 17 May 2012 00:37:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: admin http://whenigrowupcoach.com/2008/12/30/tough-question-tuesday-installment-9/comment-page-1/#comment-433 admin Wed, 31 Dec 2008 09:54:00 +0000 http://whenigrowupcoach.com/blog/?p=253#comment-433 Can I suggest reading my posts about SMARTY goals?: <a href="http://is.gd/cXPg" rel="nofollow">http://is.gd/cXPg</a> That might help you figure out how you'll get to be financially free in a more concrete way. And ditto on the Yay for your shows! I LOVE "Into the Woods" but have only been in it as Snow White (basically, a walk-on part at the end of the show) - the Baker's Wife is a fab part. Keep at it! I can tell 2009 will be a great year for you. Can I suggest reading my posts about SMARTY goals?: http://is.gd/cXPg That might help you figure out how you'll get to be financially free in a more concrete way.

And ditto on the Yay for your shows! I LOVE "Into the Woods" but have only been in it as Snow White (basically, a walk-on part at the end of the show) – the Baker's Wife is a fab part. Keep at it! I can tell 2009 will be a great year for you.

]]> By: Kim http://whenigrowupcoach.com/2008/12/30/tough-question-tuesday-installment-9/comment-page-1/#comment-432 Kim Wed, 31 Dec 2008 09:22:33 +0000 http://whenigrowupcoach.com/blog/?p=253#comment-432 What I truly want more of in my life is financial freedom. I don't know what I'll do to achieve that (seeing as how I'm currently looking for work & my husband's print media job is dangerously close to collapsing), but I'm working on it. Oh, and more shows, too! After a strong run with Into the Woods in Nov. (Baker's Wife), I'm feeling more confident in my abilities. Yay me! What I truly want more of in my life is financial freedom. I don't know what I'll do to achieve that (seeing as how I'm currently looking for work & my husband's print media job is dangerously close to collapsing), but I'm working on it. Oh, and more shows, too! After a strong run with Into the Woods in Nov. (Baker's Wife), I'm feeling more confident in my abilities. Yay me!

]]> By: admin http://whenigrowupcoach.com/2008/12/30/tough-question-tuesday-installment-9/comment-page-1/#comment-424 admin Tue, 30 Dec 2008 13:23:42 +0000 http://whenigrowupcoach.com/blog/?p=253#comment-424 I'm going to practice what I preach and start with my 2009 commitments both hard & soft (that's still what she said): * get all ICA certification requirements in by the end of April * continue my day job * be half a domestic goddess (to split the domestic duties with the domestic god I'm married to) * perform in a show w/rehearsals starting late Jan & show closing early March (soft commitment - haven't been cast yet but think I have a good shot. I think.) * continue with my coaching clients (3 clients until mid-Jan, 2 until mid-Feb) * attend my Dad's wedding in mid-January * start running & doing yoga &/or boxing again * eat healthier * continue getting my financials in order * continue writing this blog See, my problem is that I want to do it all! I know the things I immediately say "No" (just a lil' bit) to are the domestic stuff, and the exercise stuff, and the eating stuff. I wouldn't cross those out I guess, but instead reassess what I want to do against what I think I should do. I think I SHOULD eliminate most of the desserts I eat (damn holidays and chocolate in the office and all over the rest of the place!), and SHOULD run 2-3 times a week & do yoga 1-2 times a week. But I WANT to not be anal about what I eat (although I want to eat healthier, so maybe I can do the chocolate but just not every day) and I WANT to exercise just 2-3 times/wk total. I can live with that. That's balance. I'm going to practice what I preach and start with my 2009 commitments both hard & soft (that's still what she said):

* get all ICA certification requirements in by the end of April

* continue my day job

* be half a domestic goddess (to split the domestic duties with the domestic god I'm married to)

* perform in a show w/rehearsals starting late Jan & show closing early March (soft commitment – haven't been cast yet but think I have a good shot. I think.)

* continue with my coaching clients (3 clients until mid-Jan, 2 until mid-Feb)

* attend my Dad's wedding in mid-January

* start running & doing yoga &/or boxing again

* eat healthier

* continue getting my financials in order

* continue writing this blog

See, my problem is that I want to do it all! I know the things I immediately say "No" (just a lil' bit) to are the domestic stuff, and the exercise stuff, and the eating stuff. I wouldn't cross those out I guess, but instead reassess what I want to do against what I think I should do. I think I SHOULD eliminate most of the desserts I eat (damn holidays and chocolate in the office and all over the rest of the place!), and SHOULD run 2-3 times a week & do yoga 1-2 times a week. But I WANT to not be anal about what I eat (although I want to eat healthier, so maybe I can do the chocolate but just not every day) and I WANT to exercise just 2-3 times/wk total. I can live with that. That's balance.

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